18 Movies With One Sided Love Stories That Teach Us Everything About Love And Infatuation

Movies.

They’ve influenced all our lives no doubt with their intense love stories and daring plots. But what has always had us in a fix is a one-sided love story where one doesn’t get a very loving response for their undying love. A one-sided love story has our heart in knots for those whose unrequited love goes unnoticed by their object of affection.

Here are some of the greatest one-sided love stories ever told through the medium of cinema.

1. Death In Venice (1971)

This directorial masterpiece of Luchino Visconti is a story of a dying musician who flees to Venice to spend his last days, so done with life. And just when he thought life couldn’t get any worse, just like the most certain drowning of Venice, whenever it happens, he has an encounter with a young and beautiful teenage boy who catches his fancy. He even puts on makeup to look less ghastly, before he could see him. He knows he cannot touch him the way he wants to and relishes his fantasies only by watching him. If not anything else, this movie is one the biggest milestones in filmmaking industry on gay themes.

 

2. City Lights (1931)

This little Charlie Chaplin masterpiece is the epitome of one-sided love as Chaplin tries to win this fair lady’s heart, he keeps failing miserably and almost every time, he makes you cry while laughing because you cannot fathom how much love he has for her that it’s heartbreaking.

 

3. Chungking Express (1994)

This movie is a masterpiece for the lack of a better word. These four stories of these four people who are suffering heartbreak in so many different ways blended into one smooth narration is a great achievement on the behalf of director Wong Kar-Wai. Each story breaks you a little more and makes you understand what unrequited love can do to a person.

 

4. All About Steve (2009)

All About Steve, is indeed all about Steve. Sandra Bullock being her awesome self is able to carry off such a sensitive movie on her own. Her insanely smart character gets obsessed with Steve with whom she has one date and follows him into a tornado as well as a political situation through, which she emerges a hero and realizes that she doesn’t need Steve as much as she thought she should.

 

5. Amelie (2001)

This I have to say is my favorite movie of all times. This French film is too beautiful to be described in words. Although in the end, the two lovers meet, Amelie who is somewhat a lovable oddball, loves this man but keeps running away from him fearing if he gets to know won’t fall in love with her and her world would shatter. The movie doesn’t particularly depend on her love for him in the storyline but it is an important and most enjoyable part of the movie, when Amelie falls in love.

 

6. The Road Home (1999)

This is the story of a young girl who falls in love with the youthful village teacher and brings him his lunch every day which is the only way she could’ve communicated with him in their societal background and the rules bound to their positions and gender. One day he leaves and she still goes back to the place where she would take his food and wait for him till it snows. We realize, there is so much beauty in pain…

 

7. The Great Gatsby (2013)

This might just be the greatest one sided love story ever told. If you’ve watched the movie, your heart must have gone out to Leonardo Di Caprio who effortlessly play the lovelorn Gatsby who fell in love with this girl and waited for her to come back to him as long as he could and even welcomed death at her hand.

 

8. Forrest Gump (1994)

Forrest is a simple boy who couldn’t walk, but the words of his lady love “Run, Forrest Run!” made him use his legs for the first time at a tender age and he remained in love with her throughout his life, as she kept sinking lower and lower in self-pity. He never got her love, but what he did get is a son, her and his son whom he could love even when she’s gone.

 

9. 500 Days Of Summer (2009)

Tom falls in love with Summer. Summer loves Tom. But this is not a love story.

Summer is a girl who is fiercely independent and doesn’t believe in love and Tom is a guy who thinks what he feels for Summer is nothing short of love. But then his heart is broken and he still loves Summer while she has moved on. This movie is a perfect ode to modern love.

 

10. My Best Friend’s Wedding (1997)

They are best friends. They could’ve been more than friends. But Julia Roberts doesn’t feel anything more than platonic love for him until she hears the news of his marriage and then she sets off to get him back.

The best part about this movie is that it’s not a happy ending, and the girl doesn’t get the guy. It’s the most practical ending and leaves you with a realization that this is what life is and fairytales do not work in real life.

 

11. There’s Something About Mary (1998)

She was the diva at school and his first crush, even his first girlfriend. All the boys fall for her innocent charms but it takes him so much time and a hilarious string of ex-boyfriends of hers and a relationship hitchhiker trying ti woo her to get to the real Mary he has always been in love with. There indeed is something about Mary. 🙂

 

12. One Day (2011)

Two strangers who became friends through a half-hearted make-out session live a life torn between their feelings for each other and the denial of them. One sided love can sometimes be two-sided as well.

 

13. Raanjhanaa (2013)

This movie glorifies one sided love somewhat and we can not help ourselves but sympathize with our hero who gets beaten at every front of his life, leaves his family and friends for someone who’ll never really love him back. And he loves her even in death. He hurts her but then pays her back with his very existence. This movie confuses you enough to question everything you’ve ever known about love.

 

14. Hum Dil De Chuke Sanam (1999)

She loves him. He loves her. They’re separated. She’s married off to this guy, who is head over heels for her. But she has her heart set on Sameer who has gone continents apart. But you know what this guy does? He takes her back to him!Does everything he can to make the two lover meet, sacrifices his own feelings for them. What could be more painful than that?

 

15. Kal Ho Na Ho (2003)

No other Bollywood movie has explored the tricky realms of infatuation as well as this movie. Kal Ho Na Ho is a surprise which otherwise misleads you to think it’s just another goody two shoe movie by Karan Johar but it handles the subject of love so beautifully that you never see when it hits you.

 

16. Scott Pilgrim Vs. The World (2010)

Scott needs to run away from his crazy ex-girlfriend and dates so many different girls and she follows. She makes sure he breaks up with everyone he dates and gets him back because she wasn’t really that crazy after all. :p

 

17. Forgetting Sarah Marshall (2008)

This movie is a classic for a broken heart. Sarah leaves him for this British guy and he stays madly in love with her as long as he discovers Mila Kunis and then he realizes Sarah wasn’t really just worth the effort.

 

18. Kabhi Haan Kabhi Naa (1998)

The story of innocent Sunil trying to win the heart of the most beautiful girl in town, Anna with all his antiques but she still ending up with the hunk is almost every teenage boy’s story. Shah Rukh Khan is his cutest in this movie and when he cries, we inadvertently cry too. This movie makes you laugh and makes you cry and shows you that one love lost is not all of it lost. We find love again and realize what was before was never love, it was just a fantasy.

 It’s a tricky realm, infatuation, and love. The waters are shallow as well as deep.

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