Dating A Boy vs Dating A Man

When it comes to whom you want date- a boy or a man, the world seems clearly divided into two. While half of them sing praises for the young boys and their passionate love, the other half perceive that it is always better to fall in love with a MAN (often with a prefix – REAL).

However, it is not that black and white always.

Both sides of the stories have their own positive and negative aspects. Also, both have significant ‘importance’ in your lives too.

Here is a list of differences you might notice while dating a boy versus dating a man:

1. Boy : Gives you flowers, brings chocolates and arranges for a romantic dinner

Man: Kisses you on your forehead, protects you when required, and knows what you’d want as a gift

*Dreaming already*

2. Boy : He is passionate, cheerful, and energetic

Man: He is subtle, patient, and understanding

Sigh.

3. Boy: He brings out humor and fun in you

Man: He is vital for the mature and strong you

The one you date should always bring out the best in you.

4. Boy : He fights with you, and then plans a surprise to make you happy

Man: He tries to discuss on the reason of fight, and then hopes not to repeat it

Either ways, the feeling of ‘care’ is evident.

5. Boy: A playful friend

Man: A thoughtful friend

You know, both the kinds are not bad…they are just different!

6. Boy : Loves your beauty, hotness, and the bubbly you

Man: Appreciates your intelligence, smartness, and the beautiful heart

I would always love you to find me beautiful, even when I am 80. *blush*

7. Boy : Tries and avoids the things which make you uncomfortable

Man: Has the courage to stand with you when you are uncomfortable and help you fight it

Yay! I like both – in different situations!

8. Boy: Explores and lives in the present

Man: Focussed and plans the future

9. Boy : He hangs out with you and your friends

Man: He gives you space when you are with your friends

100 points!

10. Boy: He is always virtually present around you – from good morning to good night

Man: He is there for you, does not try to prove it

Aww!

11. Boy: He accompanies you to the events and dances with you

Man: He smiles when you dance and loves watching you

You know, I only dance for you, with you and to you. *love*

12. Boy: He puts status updates for you, dedicates songs and goes crazy for you

Man: He feels the love for you and shows it by his small gestures

13. Boy: He proposes in the most fancy style that makes you go weak in the knees

Man: His proposal is more like a whisper in your ear

*And we can live happily ever after*

So dear beautiful ladies and pretty girls, choose what you want and not what is ‘good’ as per them! Be it a man or a boy, dating either of them has its own charm. 😉

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