It is absolutely okay for women to have high standards when it comes to dating. It is by doing so that they can prioritize their own happiness, well-being and values. It helps to foster healthier and more fulfilling relationships. Everyone deserves a partner who respects and supports their standards, giving way to a better emotional connection.
However, society has always told women to lower their standards of dating. This pressure undermines a woman’s self-worth, paving the way for an unhealthy and unbalanced relationship. Women are constantly told to settle for less if they want a man at all and after a few horrible dating experiences, women find it very difficult to raise their standards in men.
Speaking of which, women online on Reddit’s r/AskWomen subreddit have been talking about how they raised their dating standards and some of the points are a big revelation. Here’s a look at some of the responses:
You don’t owe people an opportunity to know you if you’re not interested.
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Improve yourself first and stop saying ‘yes’ to people you’re not attracted to.
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Don’t close your eyes on people’s flaws.
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Trust your gut.
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If you’re the only one in the relationship who has to compromise, then there’s something terribly wrong.
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The more experiences you have, the more you shape your standards.
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Don’t tolerate red flags.
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Find people who positively impact you.
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You deserve reciprocation.
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Stop showing interest in people who don’t show an interest in you.
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“Would you want your kids to be raised by this man?” – ask yourself this question.
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What are your ways to increase your standards while dating? Share with us!