Every day, several women come across people on the internet who hate the concept of feminism and think it is a problem. There are the infamous chants of ‘Not All Men’ and opinions about how feminists are nothing but ‘man-haters’.
Speaking of which, a video of a guy ranting about how even beautiful women are single nowadays because of feminism has gone viral online. He says that women are not “queens” or a “prize”. He asks women not to expect him to “chase” them as he’s a “dominant”.
“Why is it that even beautiful women are single today? It’s simple – feminism. Feminism taught you, ‘You’re a queen! You’re god’s gift to this earth! You’re the prize!’ No, you ain’t. You ain’t a queen. You’re never gonna be my queen as you ain’t my mother. You don’t love me unconditionally. You love me under conditions.”
He goes on to add, “The problem is, I’m a man. When we go out, you expect me to take care of you. I pay for you. But when I tell you to do something, then do it. Don’t expect me to chase you, beg you, get on my knees. I’m not submissive. I am dominant. You’re the problem. You are delusional.”
Watch the video here:
… this scary asf pic.twitter.com/COQF6BnNGp
— Aisha 🤎 (@princessjahadd) August 26, 2021
His video faced tremendous flak online. Many expressed how he might be insecure about himself, that being single is not a problem, and how the guy is basically a “jerk”.
If you really are an “alpha” provider, why are you so upset that you have to provide?
It’s because your funds are so low and “providing” is negatively impacting your wallet.
Now you are mad & keeping tabs on what is owed, because your “alpha” is being tested & it is fragile.
— Jackie. (@ohmyjackieee) August 26, 2021
1.) Being “single” is not a problem to be solved. 2.) Even if it was, HE is not the solution 3.) If he is the only option out there, my daughter can be “single” forever but 4.) Thank God, he is not. Also 5.) If you gotta tell us, you’re not “dominant,” you’re just a jerk.
— mtorez (@mtorez) August 26, 2021
Men can we retire this “provider” concept and be “supporters” or sumn.
Cuz all I hear is scorekeeping. Doing things because you expect a return.
Support each other, and real partnership isn’t about being 50/50. It should be 100/100. You both give according to your strengths.
— Cam Murdoch (@cammurdochmusic) August 26, 2021
His curtains aren’t even on a rod – just nailed up there. Also the batteries in his smoke detector need changed. No woman wants you because you can’t even do the basics of being a grown man with a job and his own place.
— 🏝 JOE 🏵 (@j0seph08) August 26, 2021
guys literally make these kinds of videos to get praise from other guys lmaoo like pls make it a little less obvious that you’re tryna make other dudes feel better about themselves cuz that’s the only time you’ll get any affection lmfaooo 😭😭😭💀
— sabbxo (@sabpink01) August 29, 2021
the thing is, he almost had me in the first half 😭 i thought he was going to say its cause feminism got women realising their worth and wont settle and dont have to conform to social norms or pressure to marry young. but nahh boy went the other way
— ommae (@mr_mackie1) August 29, 2021
One thing that is deeply concerning is him saying “you ain’t never gonna be my queen because you ain’t my MOTHER” imagine what Freud would say lol
— blu (@blujeanbabie) August 29, 2021
I find it even more disturbing that thousands of people actually resonate with the man.
— Genesis (@SheMeansWar) August 28, 2021
However, there were also some people who supported him:
80% of what he said was true. In a mans life, his mother is his Queen. If he’s treating you like a Queen before y’all have had a connection built to sustain that level of chemistry, then it’s going away fast. He was wrong when he said “Women are the problem”. He could’ve
— that wolf (@drivenwolf22) August 26, 2021
To accept the flaws of someone and love them regardless is submission, and women refuse to submit but men are always submitting, makes women the dominant, but women don't like that, they like men who are sure of themselves
— Roy (@KevinFromLA) August 31, 2021
There are several people like him who not only don’t understand the basic concept of feminism but also resonate with every word that this guy said. What do you think?