13 Powerful Qualities Of A Badass Alpha Woman

The term “Alpha” can be interpreted in many ways. It can mean the one who leads the pack and fetches food. It can also mean the one who is ultra wild. But when it comes to an Alpha woman, she is not all about just being wild. She is about being smartly wild, the good wild. She is smart, she is strong, and she knows how to win at life games. Her physical features or her skills at cooking mouth-watering food don’t define her, but her daredevil attitude sure does.

1. Nothing can control her from taking the flight

You try all possible techniques of taming her from being her usual free self, and she will break-free each time. Not stealthily leaving the house in the mid-night break-free, but she will tell you in your face that the only person who can set limits for her is her. Not you, not her boyfriend of 5 years, not her family.

 

2. She is the creator of her own life

She is born independent at heart and she lives her life just how she wants to. If someone has a good advise for her, she will take note of it. But for everything else, she makes her own plans and sticks by them, no matter how difficult they may seem initially. And even if they backfire, she learns from them and prepares herself well for future.

 

3. Life is going to give her sour moments, but she knows how to move on

Her awesomeness is not generally well-received by the rest of the world. So there are going to be lemons thrown at her every once in a while. Not every day and not every human she meets is going to give her pleasing memories, and she knows that well. So even when glass pieces on her path keep piercing through her body and her soul, she laughs her pain away and continues to walk to get past the phase. Because she knows there is intelligence in getting past the miseries, not in playing the victim.

 

4. She can’t be a dumbfounded viewer of the evil

She is not one of those who become a part of the mute crowd when a poor lady is being beaten black and blue by her out-of-control drunk husband. She will make her way through the crowd, save the lady, give the man a piece of her mind, and make the crowd look down in shame.

 

5. She does not wait for opportunities to come her way, she grabs them

She does not wait for the success to knock at her door, nor does she dread hearing ‘No’ or demotivating comments. All she knows is to be the first one to raise her hand every-time the chance to outshine arrives.

 

6. She knows she is the whole package (totally secure and proud)

Her knocked knees come out in the open for the judgeheads everytime she wears a LBD. But does she care? She knows that manly feet, or a mole at a wrong place do not define her personality. And even if they do, she knows how to create a trend out of every feature that the world perceives as a flaw.

 

7. She does not crib about what could have happened

Things fall out of order every once in a while and she is prepared to get head-on with the problem instead of sitting and wailing over how smooth her life would have been if that did not happen at that particular time.

 

8. She does not waste her time and energy on things that are not worthy of it

If she gets late to office on the account of helping a blind man reach the place he wants to safely, she won’t care. But if it is her nagger roommate reading out the room rule-book to her early in the morning, she turns a deaf ear and walks away sipping from the cup that says “whatever”. Because there are always things in life more important than giving attention to useless tiffs.

 

9. Messaging is not her cup of tea, she likes to converse with real faces instead of emoticons

You send her messages starting from ‘hey dear.. ;)’ and she will reply but just for the sake of it. Messages don’t always give out the exact feelings and being fake is never her style. So she prefers seeing real emoticons (expressions) on real people in real life.

 

10. She is never afraid of taking risks

She has her priorities set right in her mind and if addressing those priorities means stepping out of the comfort-zone, she will do it. Feeling a little discomfort initially is only natural, but she finds her own fun in that. And she does not prefer taking the easy road anyway because how would that help her become stronger? And yes, she knows that being stronger is not same as being rugged.

 

11. When she walks into a room, everyone takes notice

Because hello! She always emits magnetic vibes and she does not exactly have to be what society calls “beautiful”, to hypnotize.

 

12. She would never be what others want her to be

Society is a pro at setting rules, at forcing people to follow them, and at threatening them by giving a glimpse of what might dawn upon them if they don’t play by those rules. But no rule can ever compel her to leave her true self  behind.

 

13. She would never enter a relationship defined by a plethora of baseless rules

She knows what being faithful and supportive is. What she does not know is how to play by the nonsense rules. And so, she does not mind having a casual partner who has his/her brain set in the same direction as her. Also, if you think complementing her on her looks is the way to her heart, you are mistaken. You tell her she is looking fabulous, and she will feel nice. You complement her on her courageous take on life and her soul will feel touched, and nice.

That’s the style of an alpha woman.

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