15 Struggles Of People Who Can’t Say ‘NO’

Do you agree that saying NO is the hardest thing for you? If this question is the only one that makes you say yes, then you should read on and find out if you’re one of those people who can never say no:

1. You always end up accepting invitations to parties that you had no intention of going to

“Umm…ok, I’ll go”

 

2. Your sibling always gets what he/she wants from you

Come on now. Who can say no to their siblings.

 

3. You end up lending all your money. ALL.

Moneylender should be your middle name.

 

4. You are always handed the bill because everybody knows you will not refuse to pay it

You know it too.

 

5. You end up drinking more than you had planned

You can’t even say no to drinks, let alone people

 

6. Your bargaining skills are worse than a toddler’s

Bhaiyya kam nahi hoga? NAHI.

 

7. You do everybody’s work while they take their weekends off

Weekend? What’s that now?

 

8. You lend your things to people who you know will never return it to you on time

Or probably never at all.

 

9. You have to eat food even when you are too full or knowing the food is bad

 

10. You volunteer for every fashion experiment that your niece (or your girlfriend) wants to try on

Your girlfriend more often than your niece

 

11. You accept whatever hideous clothes your relatives gift you

Yeah, saying no to in–laws? Not happening.

 

12. You always have that one friend who is your say-no-to-it reminder

And you should probably start paying her up.

 

13. You always make false promises that next time you will definitely say no

Sigh. Who are you kidding?

 

You invariably feel guilty when you fail to keep up that promise

 

14. Your conscience bites back at you when you actually, finally manage to say ‘no’ just the one time

 

15. You were vehemently nodding your head on each point because of course: YOU CAN’T SAY NO!

And you just said no again.

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