10 Reasons Why You Should Stop Giving F**ks About People Who Don’t Matter

How many times has it happened to you that some actions of another person has spoiled your mood for the entire day?

It shouldn’t have. But it did.

Because deep inside we do care about what people think about us, and when these people do not care back, it hurts.

Why does it happen so often?

1. We live in a time where we haven’t spent a lot of our education getting our mind in control

We study a lot of Science and Geography and History, but no one teaches us how to be mindFUCKful of our thoughts.

 

2. As a result, we have temperament and moods that swing according to the way people behave

And in this fickle dog-eat-dog world, no one really watches what they speak.

 

3. And we tend to NOT prioritize the importance of people around us

Because some people’s opinion matters, and the others’ – not so much.

 

4. Because not everyone around you really truly cares about you

This is a reality check everyone needs.

 

5. And not all their actions and words are said and done keeping your happiness in mind

People are selfish. Deal with it.

 

6. And when interactions go south, it hurts our feelings because we aren’t trained to deal with them

We take everything bad we hear to our hearts. The same hearts that are not experienced to take the bad stuff that was said.

 

7. And that is why everytime a person who doesn’t care about you speaks something carelessly it hurts

And it spoils your mood, and by extension – your day.

 

8. Training yourself to deal with negativity takes time and investment in energy

It requires you to be mindful of your feelings, and that takes a lot of training.

 

9. A simple way is to not care

Which can be learnt very easily.

 

10. Until you have learnt to deal with the haters

After you train yourself to deal with the negativity, you can deal with the haters your way.

To not care is to maintain your own sanity. If you start giving everyone’s said words importance, one of them is going to hurt you bad.

Very few people in this world truly care about your feelings.

Keep them closer.

For your haters and the negative people –

Stay strong, and learn to deal with the negativity until then!

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