12 Best Hacks For A Long Lasting Relationship

When it comes to relationship hacks, seems like everyone has found their own way of keeping their partners happy. Relationships are rocket science. You don’t have a book or a code of conduct which assures you a long lasting relationship. If you understand the difference between a wedding and a marriage, you are probably doing it right and for the ones who are confused, here’s the rescue.

For an enduring relation, this is what you can do

1. Pin it down

This trick does wonders and I can vouch you for it. Keep a notebook and write down every tiny-winey detail from time to time. Something they like, something they appreciated, something they said they wanted to do etc. Now give them all those things later; everything at once or one by one. The trick is not to do it immediately.

 

2. Wondering about the gift?

Tell them you have a surprise gift for them and ask them to guess. Now you will have an entire list of gifts that they are expecting from you and voila, job well done. With no disappointment and no hazel everything just in line and just in time.

 

3. Hold hands while you fight 

Ever tried fighting while holding hands? No? Because when you are in love with someone, holding hands is one of the most serene things to do and that way you just can’t be mad on them for longer. So whenever you fight, hold their hands.

 

4. Change your roles

A girl doesn’t need to cook all the time and a guy isn’t always supposed to propose their love. You can always change your roles, tweak the task and give a brilliant twist to your love. After All, the love wouldn’t change if a boyfriend cooks a surprise meal or a girlfriend knelt down to propose to her love.

 

5. If not worth your dime, then not worth your time

Just out of rage or in the sheer madness of proving yourself right, we often fight for things that aren’t important or won’t be important a year from now. Why waste your time and love on something which doesn’t hold a torch in your life? Never waste your time on things that aren’t important and don’t argue over it.

 

6. Don’t buy them gifts, buy them their dreams

Instead of buying them shirts, wallets, watches and other fancy things that go mundane in a while, buy them things that persuade them to work in the right direction. Buy them a dream that they always wanted to pursue, but couldn’t. Things that they always wanted to do but they keep putting off should be the one on your bucket list.

 

7. A common bucket list

I share a common bucket list with my boyfriend and that’s a terrific love magnet. We keep our love goals on the same page for us to know everything about what other person is expecting. This gives us the opportunity and leverage of understanding their stance and of course deciding the course of action.

 

8. A code for love

The funny thing about hacking your love life is that, all you want is love. A cute way to cut down on your inane arguments and fights, another easy way is to choose a code word. Make a pact that whenever the two of you will fight, and one of you says that word, you have to put an end to your fight. Sounds fun eh?

 

9. The key is to be considerate and say the obvious

When you are in love you know that you are happy, you know that the presence of your someone special lightens your day and you appreciate what they do, but sometimes all these obvious unsaid things makes all the big difference. Begin by telling them you love them more often than not, appreciate them, cherish them and say the obvious to ignite your spark.

 

10. Mark your words, in a good way

You would be surprised to know how much the little things matter. Starting your sentences from did you. . . ? puts a lot of pressure on your partner, holds them guilty and what not. Try being considerate and say have you had a chance….? to be more compassionate.

 

11. A monthly date night

A week may sound too much, but once in a month is absolutely doable. Relationship hacks turn best when you add your personal touch. A private time for two sounds wonderful and will turn amazing too when you will put in that extra effort to keep your partner happy. Just watching a movie together, going out for a couple of drinks, catching up with old habits and a lot more can do wonders to your relation.

 

12. Know it, every day

There’s nothing like knowing a person completely. People evolve every day and thus keeps you on your toes. Care to know them every day, care to ask how their day was, what was the good thing about their day. Basically, care to show interest.

Love is something you create, every day.

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