10 Reasons Why The Best Lovers Come From A Broken Heart

How many times have we fallen off the bicycle while learning to ride it?

Many times. And even though it is hurtful at times, it remains a fond childhood memory.

Because we know that falling down from the cycle made us a better cyclist. It is probably the oldest analogy and the first lesson we learn in life – It hurts but we never stop believing that we can’t ride the bicycle.

A heartbreak cannot be sufficiently compared to a bike fall, but the lesson still stands – it was a fall, it hurt but it doesn’t mean that we will not find love. And that’s how heartbreak makes better people.

1. They become more sensitive as a person after a heartbreak. They listen more and become better lovers

A smooth relationship might make us insensitive. It makes us a bit complacent too, being too comfortable in the skin of a stable relationship. A broken heart makes us let go of the complacency.

 

2. They become more vulnerable, and this vulnerability makes us get to know them better.

They don’t have any pretenses left. The vulnerability makes them more accessible. No more digging to get to the core.

 

3. They improve themselves after a heartbreak

They exercise more after a broken heart, eat healthy, find new hobbies making a better, healthier version of themselves.

 

4. They learn that love is not a gamble. They learn that love takes hard work and effort.

They take it very very seriously. They will never cheat on you. They know what it’s like to have their heart broken.

 

5. They are humbled because of their past experiences. They don’t have the air of entitlement anymore.

They are not overconfident. They know what life can dish out on the bad days. They remain level headed even on good days.

 

6. They are open about their past experiences and have nothing to hide – not even the scars of the previous relationship.

Sharing their painful experiences is cathartic for them. They will not shy away from narrating their experiences. They might be a bit guarded at first because they are afraid, but once they gain your trust, you can learn a lot from them.

 

7. They know what loss feels like and make it a point to not lose their love anymore

They will be there when you need them the most.

 

8. They have spent time after the heartbreak in loneliness. They are brave and are not afraid to spend time apart even when in love.

No more clingy lovers.

 

9. They rebuilt their relationships with their family and friends after the heartbreak and have a good social bond with them

They went back to their friends and families and rebuilt their relationships. This means they have well-rounded social lives which is a good thing for a balanced mind.

 

10. They are thankful for falling in love.

Which is probably the most important thing in a relationship. They feel blessed that they fell in love again.

Heartbreaks ar sad events. But they make better lovers.

Chances are, you will find your one true in a person with a broken heart.

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