Time and again we highlight situations faced by the people of India that prove that even in 2022, we are moving backward. The same rules don’t apply to men and women, especially in a marriage.
Taking to Twitter, a user named ‘Poan Sapdi’ shared how a guy on a matrimonial site rejected her and looked down upon her when she informed him that she was in a relationship in college.
This guy from https://t.co/XjM9KA5GDV literally said he can’t proceed with this and hung up on me when I told him I was in a relationship in college like what! and whyyy! 😂
— Poan Sapdi (@Poan_Sapdi) July 13, 2022
She was in shock by this incident and we are too. Like, what can be the possible reason for this guy to behave so naively? Well, people online had some explanations for his behavior. Take a look:
One guy said me he won’t marry a girl who has been in more than 2 relationship 👀
— imposter_syndrome (@i_eat_bhav) July 13, 2022
Hurt his smol pp ego
— cocaïna (@2heyno) July 13, 2022
Marriage is a patriarchal construct to put shackles on women.
Don’t marry queen 👑.— Buldgeon (@Buldgeon3) July 13, 2022
Do you know how hard for a boy who never indulge in sexu@l relationship to mingle with girl whose whole life is moving around promiscuous relationship.
— ronamanahai (@ronamanahai1) July 13, 2022
Idk why they do this. So many ppl date in college & fool around, but god forbid the rishta they have does the same, it’s considered cheap and then they call you characterless for like….having a healthy dating life???? Doesn’t even make sense. You probably dodged a bullet there.
— Kuhu Bhatnagar (she/they) (@aSagCoder) July 13, 2022
If you were in relationship then stick to him.. why broke up or don’t be in a relationship untill and unless you are sure to marry that guy. Pahle istemal kare fir vishwas kare types hai ye to
— Tyrion (@Tyrion15729530) July 14, 2022
This mentality is crazy weird. A person who has lived more than 25 years is bound to have experiences in life. He’ll probably marry a girl who will lie to him about this😂
— Srushtea (@BarfsHerThots) July 13, 2022
Rishta barabari walo me hota hai.
Number of exes bhi uske barabar ki chahiye hongi usko, maybe zero.— Aman (@AmanHasNoName_2) July 13, 2022
Maybe because he didn’t want someone who was sexually active before marriage?
— Yash (@Yashfacts28) July 13, 2022
Or maybe he has ED or is impotent or homosexual. Afraid if a girl who’s had a bf previously might know his flaws. A country bumpkin girl will not be able to see through his shortcomings 🌚
— Rovina Ikesh (@rovingstones) July 14, 2022
Hanging up was little immature tbh,but as a guy I can understand the insecurity behind it.
— Milky bar (@KingDop15813815) July 13, 2022
Her promiscuity is her problem not his insecurity
— Ringshot (@Ringshot1) July 13, 2022
bdw is there any logic to justify this behaviour (asking seriously)?
— Unoccupied (@invalidCitizen) July 13, 2022
The woman went on to share that many dropped on her comments section saying that women who have had relationship(s) are “Cum Banks”/ used car/commodity/ someone from the street.”
This is what is wrong with our society! This mentality makes me sick! 🤢 pic.twitter.com/LRFMGylXLM
— Poan Sapdi (@Poan_Sapdi) July 14, 2022
And this is the reason why our country isn’t getting over this backward thinking.