It is absolutely okay for women to have high standards when it comes to dating. It is by doing so that they can prioritize their own happiness, well-being and values. It helps to foster healthier and more fulfilling relationships. Everyone deserves a partner who respects and supports their standards, giving way to a better emotional connection.
However, society has always told women to lower their standards of dating. This pressure undermines a woman’s self-worth, paving the way for an unhealthy and unbalanced relationship. Women are constantly told to settle for less if they want a man at all and after a few horrible dating experiences, women find it very difficult to raise their standards in men.
Speaking of which, women online on Reddit’s r/AskWomen subreddit have been talking about how they raised their dating standards and some of the points are a big revelation. Here’s a look at some of the responses:
You don’t owe people an opportunity to know you if you’re not interested.
Improve yourself first and stop saying ‘yes’ to people you’re not attracted to.
Don’t close your eyes on people’s flaws.
Trust your gut.
If you’re the only one in the relationship who has to compromise, then there’s something terribly wrong.
The more experiences you have, the more you shape your standards.
Don’t tolerate red flags.
Find people who positively impact you.
You deserve reciprocation.
Stop showing interest in people who don’t show an interest in you.
“Would you want your kids to be raised by this man?” – ask yourself this question.
What are your ways to increase your standards while dating? Share with us!