Breakups are hard. And having a cordial and healthy equation with our exes post-breakup is even harder. This may be because of underlying resentment, anger, bitterness or even a touch of sadness and hurt. Which is why most often we hear exes deleting each other’s number and severing all contact.
But sometimes, we come across people who still respect and care about their former partners. These instances are few and far between but are real nonetheless. Here’s one of them.
Twitter user @_xolexc unexpectedly received a text from her ex-boyfriend a day before his wedding. And what he said left her speechless. Take a look.
i’m speechless pic.twitter.com/i2EAiER60z
— 𝙻𝚎𝚡 ♡ (@_xolexc) July 20, 2019
The heartfelt text teared her up and she replied with an equally beautiful message wishing him lots of happiness for the new chapter in his life.
for everyone asking me what i replied to, this is what i replied. i was literally speechless an didn’t know what to say but that’s what i said . pic.twitter.com/Zwkh0iAr2i
— 𝙻𝚎𝚡 ♡ (@_xolexc) July 21, 2019
The tweet has now garnered almost 95,000 retweets and over 400,000 likes. People loved the way the two of them accepted the fact that they were meant to be in each other’s lives for a limited amount of time. They were grateful for that time and what it taught them.
The level of maturity and growth that was evident from their conversation meant that there was no dry eye in the house. Here are some of the emotional reactions of netizens.
m a t u r i t y pic.twitter.com/hwI5MgLRqe
— jossy 💛 (@josselynxoo) July 20, 2019
Everyone comes into your life for a reason and each relationship you’re in, good/bad, should help teach and mold you to be a “perfect” partner for your future mate. I think this was sweet and I’m sure well deserved. Cheers to being adults and expressing emotions healthily. 💕
— Sasha Feliciano (@sashmophoto) July 20, 2019
This is so sweet tho 😭
— ash (@Abkjames1) July 20, 2019
The way he called you “Lexita” at the end… I have a knot in my throat 😭
— Reyna (@ReynaG88) July 22, 2019
Thanks for sharing these great tweets between you & your former boyfriend. People, esp. kids, need to see that exes don’t HAVE to be enemies because romantic love has run its course. Friendship & respect can remain. I wish happiness & success for both of you & your families.
— Lady Velara (@LadyVelara) July 23, 2019
This shit is way too cute oh my god. Spread positivity.
— mushr☭☭m (@isucalienz) July 22, 2019
Do you think exes can look beyond the past and have a friendly equation with each other? Or is it better to avoid stirring the pot and keep a healthy distance? Tell us.