Having friends plays a major role in who we are as people. And at least once in life, we come across certain people we think are our friends, but they turn out to be everything else. They’re the kind of people who send us down a negative path; they’re the ones who make our lives toxic. Unfortunately, we realize the truth about them after some of the damage is done. And sometimes, these people can really change our way of looking at the world, forever.
Following are the lessons we learn after we’ve come out of a toxic friendship.
1. Never underestimate yourself
No matter how small your ‘friend’ might make you feel, there is nothing worse than you underestimating yourself.
2. People you think are your best friends may not be your best friends
Sometimes, the best of people are actually not the best.
3. Jealousy makes people do terrible things
Other people may be insecure, and that insecurity makes them forget friendship in an instant.
4. There are people who would actually like to see you do badly
There are tons of people in the world who would get a kick out of it. Never let them bog you down.
5. It is only during tough times that you know who your real friends are
And those are the people to stick to.
6. Sticking to your decision always goes a long way
No matter what people say, your decision is ultimately yours, and for no one else to change.
7. The truth always triumphs over lies
Initially things might not be in your favor, but in time, the truth is revealed. And it always wins.
8. Forgiving people is important, for inner peace
Even though they’ve wronged you.
9. When you accept all your strengths and flaws, no one can use them against you
You’re strong, you’re invincible.
10. If someone somewhere doesn’t like you for no reason, it means you’re doing something right
So, don’t stop doing it.
Because, letting go of all the toxic people in your life is a step towards loving yourself.