We live in a world where niceties have died and everything you do for someone is received with a little doubt – what if there is an ulterior motive to this? It’s true when people say that kindness is a lost virtue in today’s day and age.
One of the biggest problems plaguing us since a long time is the fact that men just do not understand women. More often than not, they fail to understand that just because a girl/woman is nice to them doesn’t mean she is ‘asking for it’.
Imgur user shared her experience with a guy who thought she was leading him on because she was nice to him. Simple things like talking to him at lunch or laughing at his jokes. This dude thought she’s totally leading him on. Like, WHAT?
His messages were pretty direct and disgusting, tbh.
This will do things, either it will blow your mind or it will leave you seething with anger.
Other users were as taken aback by this as you and I would be.
1. You’re not even a player, really.
2. I get paid to be nice…
3. Yeah, that’s why we have the ‘resting bitch face’.
4. Genius derivation skills.
5. Like at least be subtle about it?
6. Incredibly sad.
7. “What? Just friends? Nah!”
Why can’t we go back to times when niceness was a virtue and a norm? Or why can’t we be like that gay couple who started a niceness competition with their neighbouring couple?
I am really appalled by this guy’s audacity and directness to assume she was being nice because she wanted to have sex with him. It’s sad to see that our generation is so driven by sexual desires that everything seems to revolve around that, don’t you think?