Till now, we might have come across a lot of men in our lives. Some would make delicious spreads for us, and others don’t even know how to make tea. But despite their lack of skills, they sure have the audacity to judge women for the same.
Taking to Twitter, user Varunram Ganesh penned a situation wherein a 28-year-old man went to a girl’s house for rishta and was shocked on seeing the dish she cooked.
He posted a picture of a scrambled dosa and asked people online, ‘What should a guy do when someone who claims to be a good cook comes back with this’?
“You are 28 and you are Indian. Your parents set you up with this girl, and you go with your family to visit her. You are a bit hungry and the girl’s family says “she cooks very well” so you think “I’ll eat one dosa, why not”. She goes in and brings this back. What do you do?”
You are 28 and you are Indian. Your parents set you up with this girl, and you go with your family to visit her. You are a bit hungry and the girl's family says "she cooks very well" so you think "I'll eat one dosa, why not". She goes in and brings this back. What do you do? pic.twitter.com/NvU4gbcaEe
— Varunram Ganesh (@varunramg) May 11, 2022
Well, since he asked for people’s opinions, they flooded him with some and suggested the guy in his hypothetical scenario should look into hiring a cook or a maid and not a partner.
You $lap yourself and promise to yourself that you would never look for a domestic worker when looking for a wife and a partner. Also, if you are an adult and do not have basic life skills like making your own food then maybe first get your act together in life. https://t.co/PDCT9eCU7Q
— Amit Mehra (@amitmehra) May 21, 2022
Please help this person to find a Cook (not wife) #Women https://t.co/IJQXcisMcD
— Ridzsups (@ridzsups) May 21, 2022
Cook for her and yourself, tell her it doesn't matter and not force her to learn cooking https://t.co/6y0F7pX8XO
— lol (@chesaidno) May 21, 2022
"Cooking is a basic life skill, not a gender role."
Oh btw, were you looking for a cook or a life partner? Usska banaya nai pasand toh khud khaana bana na seekhle chomu !! https://t.co/XipZDoJ3tw
— tanya (@traumatied) May 20, 2022
The question should be are you looking for a cook or a life partner? 🤷♀️😑 https://t.co/pM9fKYTNk4
— Sheetal Sakpal (@sheetalbsakpal) May 20, 2022
Please dont marry her and make her life worse! She deserves someone who lifts her up, not someone who puts her down like this for a small mistake👩🎨 https://t.co/tfmBbmEl42
— Rᴀᴠᴀ ᴜᴘᴍᴀ sᴛᴀɴᥫ᭡ (@RavaUpma__) May 20, 2022
she clearly doesn't like you and i don't blame her. if this is what you want then learn how to make dosa yourself https://t.co/tdzzgcs6gU
— praddy (@praddyisnothere) May 20, 2022
Divorce her ! She deserves someone better and definitely not a chauvinist lyk u ! https://t.co/SHcY1WYVwe
— Existence | He/Him 🦀 (@desitutakhamun) May 20, 2022
What if a guy is not doing great job ,less salary !!! You will marry the guy !!!
Cooking cleaning should be learned by men women both . It's a normal quality. Or do a better job u both so u can order from home delivery services. Why to make fuss over not so important issues. https://t.co/clHblCN5WI
— 𝐓𝐄𝐉𝐑𝐀𝐍 𝐅𝐎𝐑𝐄𝐕𝐄𝐑❤️ (@d_choudhuri) May 20, 2022
It's your ass that should have been on the pan not the dosa batter. https://t.co/9tXBtI3J7B
— Jill (@JabilliKosam1) May 20, 2022
Then be a gentleman and cook for yourself and incase you also don’t know how to cook then order online ☺️
— Selenophile Abide ✨ (@ektara03) May 20, 2022
Tell her, you made dosa Better than me, let’s learn together ❣️🤗 and cook in turns
Or let’s two grow rich together to hire even chef😌
— Mira (@Mira2138) May 20, 2022
Just a reminder that this is a made-up situation.
yeah this was a hypothetical scenario, if it happened irl I’d just laugh lol
— Varunram Ganesh (@varunramg) May 11, 2022
To me, the guy comes across as an entitled rajkumar. Also, if the woman serves someone with such a dosa after claiming she’s a good cook then the guy should take the hint and leave.