Emma Watson Rejects Taboo Around Singlehood, Says She Is ‘Self-Partnered’

Being single sucks.

No, I don’t say that thinking that with being single, one is lonely, in need of affection, and “lagging behind” while all the suitable dating prospects are quickly being grabbed. Singlehood sucks not because of a single person’s own feelings, but because of the various societal pressures they are put through.

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For the longest time, the term ‘single’ has had attached to itself a negative connotation. Imagine other such ‘single’ terms like ‘divorced’, or ‘widowed’. There is a constant sense of stigma, we all know it. Like in India, it is a given that by the age of 30 a woman must be married and have her first child within 2-3 years of the marriage. If not, people start questioning the worth of the woman.

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I also can’t even begin to think the amount of pressure guys must go through. They are expected to “settle down” and have a “secure career” by the time they are 30. But what if they are still trying to figure things out? What if they enjoy being single but are constantly picked on by their other friends? All this and more has led to people suffering from a decreasing sense of self-esteem and self-worth and they start believing that they will be “fulfilled” if only they are in a relationship.

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However, thank god for Emma Watson whom we have grown up watching as Hermione Granger! In her recent interview with British Vogue, Emma manages to breakdown and downright abolish the negativity around being single. Instead, she termed it as being “self-partnered”. Now that’s got a positive ring to it, doesn’t it?

She said:

“If you have not built a home, if you do not have a husband, if you do not have a baby, and you are turning 30, and you’re not in some incredibly secure, stable place in your career, or you’re still figuring things out…there’s just this incredible amount of anxiety. It took me a long time, but I’m very happy [being single]. I call it being self-partnered.”

And now, people on the internet have become a fan! They have taken to Twitter to express how grateful they are to Watson for coining a term which to some extent removes the stigma attached to singlehood, and emphasizes more on self-sufficiency.

You can watch her entire interview with Vogue here:

It is sad how society wants us to conform to certain roles and standards, and fit ourselves into small defined boxes that can’t even contain our entire personalities. Singlehood should be less about hunting for a partner to settle down and more about enjoying and celebrating your own self however you want to!