Breaking a heart is to break yourself first.
Every relationship starts so beautifully but it’s so sad when winter settles over spring and suddenly everything that used to make you happy, starts irritating you and it makes you want to go chase summer. When you begin feeling like this, or your partner does, and you sense that distinctively, it’s time you ask yourself some questions and come to a decision that is the best for the two of you. Because you never stop caring for them, rather care about them too much.
Here are a few signs that your relationship is coming closer to an expiration date, if not taken care of in time.
1. He/she tries to keep minimum contact with you. As less as possible.
2. Either you or your partner has developed irresolvable trust issues.
3. The two of you have pole apart views on the big picture of life.
4. Either of you is holding on to the past way too tightly.
5. You don’t feel free to be yourself.
6. You notice he/she has gradually lost interest in you.
7. Things aren’t going anywhere with the two of you.
8. You’ve been at crossroads before that is breaking up. Several times.
9. The only thing keeping you together is the physical attraction.
10. He/she is perennially suspicious of you.
11. You don’t feel like his/her priority.
12. He/she resorts to abusing you now and then.
13. He/she puts you down every time you need them the most.
14. Your partner tries to take control of you and makes all of your decisions.
15. You’re not friends with each other anymore.
You just keep waiting for a miracle, but it doesn’t happen.