10 Times Guys Love When Girls Take Charge

We’re in an age where chivalry is appreciated but we still like to take charge of own lives. We pay our own bills, pull out our own chairs and we can make the first move. But it’s not just us girls who love taking charge, guys love it when we do! There are some things girls can do better and honestly they’ve realized that they should just leave it to the pros!

So here’s when they love it if you take the lead…

1. When you approach him, instead of waiting for him to make the first move.

You don’t have to wait in the sidelines for him to come to you, it’s better if you go to him. If you like what you see, just make the move and we bet he’d love that!

 

2. When you text first and leave those mind games behind.

No more 3-day-rule, no more waiting for him to text you first. You’ve got a phone, pick it up and press send, we don’t have time for those mind games anymore.

 

3. When you’re the one on the driver’s seat and he’s the passenger at your mercy.

Girls can drive and we can even do it better. So take the steering wheel and go for those long drives you wanted to take, while he changes the music.

 

4. When you make yourself the dominatrix of the bedroom and not wait to be guided.

Now who doesn’t want a woman who knows what she wants.

 

5. When you make spontaneous plans and whisk him away!

The sweeping fairytale romance isn’t just for damsels, it’s for prince charming too. Don’t wait by the window waiting for him to rescue you. Instead, sneak out and take him on an adventure he won’t forget.

 

6. And instead of pretending like you don’t know what you want to order, you call for a large portion of everything with space for dessert.

We’re girls and we have a huge appetite, so order chinese, sushi, italian or indian, but order enough to fill yourself up, instead of playing with a salad. He’s going to love you for being real!

 

7. When it comes to spicing things up in your relationship, whether it’s role playing or something more interesting!

You can be the warrior and he can be your prisoner, or maybe you can send him on a chase around the city, the ball’s in your court. The question is, how are you going to serve it?

 

8. And especially you take charge of the social circle and make fast friends with his buddies, instead of being shy and awkward.

Charm them with your charisma and wit. Don’t hang by his arm, waiting for introductions. Introduce yourself and by the end of the night you’ll be their bestest buddy!

 

9. The time you’re getting them drunk at a party and staying sober to look after them!

Let him get crazy drunk and you can be the designated driver for the night. He’ll love seeing you as the responsible one who’s pampering him tonight.

 

10. He will especially be floored if you registered him for a couple’s contest like, Closeup’s first-move contest, and won hands down!

And he’ll absolutely adore you, if you spontaneously went onto Closeup’s portal to register for the contest and shared your first move story along with a bold selfie! The couples who did register and send in their selfies, got a customized gif that represents their relationship.

Because if you have, there’s a chance your story might be among the below mentioned winners!

Maybe, she kick-started your bike, like Ajay and Rashmi’s winning story from the South.

Or maybe, you fell in love with her while playing twister like Ankit and Riddhima from the North.

Closeup’s got girl power down pat this time and the video is giving me all kinds of hopes of a perfectly kickass relationship. Thanks Ajay, Rashmi, Ankit and Riddhima for all the feels, love is officially in the air!

So get up and take charge, it’s absolutely sexy!

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